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How to avoid Ghosting and Situationships?

man in a suit and 2 women in saree are standing beside each other while the man is looking at one woman while ignoring the other.

Picture this – You’ve moved on and are ready to meet someone new. You go on a date with a really pretty girl who is sweet, funny and a little sassy. While you sit across from her, you start dreaming about a future together. But after the date, you get home and realise she has ghosted you.

She seemed nice, laughed at all your jokes and seemed to have a good time. So, what went wrong? Before we look at the tips that can help you avoid getting ghosted and stuck in situationships, let’s take a moment to understand what these terms mean.

Table of Contents

  1. What is a Situationship?
  2. What is Ghosting?
  3. Recognising the red flags
  4. Avoiding situationships like bad food
  5. How to keep it casual (but not too casual)
  6. Flirt with the second prettiest person in the group
  7. Avoid being the love guru
  8. Don’t act too desperate
  9. Avoid being controlling or possessive
  10. The ultimate cure for ghosting – take them to Ajay’s
  11. Vibe check: getting that happy wali feeling
  12. Conclusion

What’s a Situationship?

Picture this: you’re at the movies, excited to watch a great film. You buy your ticket and grab a good seat, but when the movie starts, it’s just the previews playing over and over. You’re stuck waiting for the main show, but it never comes. That’s what a situationship feels like—you’re involved in something that seems fun, but it doesn’t give you what you really want. It’s like getting a small sample of a delicious dish but never getting the full meal. If you’re feeling stuck in this situation, it might be time to either ask for what you want or find a better movie!

What’s Ghosting?

Ghosting is when someone suddenly disappears from your life, leaving you confused about what happened. It’s like being in a scary movie where the lights go out and suddenly, the main character is gone. One minute, you’re chatting like good friends and the next, they’ve vanished without a word. You’re left staring at your phone, trying to figure out what went wrong. Ghosting can feel like a silly trick, but it’s a reminder that not everyone you meet is in it for the long run. So, if someone ghosts you, don’t worry—there are plenty of other people out there.

Now that we’ve defined these terms, let’s explore our list of tips to help you navigate the dating landscape more successfully and avoid these frustrating experiences!

1. Recognising the red flags

Red flag

When dating, it’s essential to pay attention to the red flags that can signal trouble down the line. If your date takes ages to respond to your messages or seems disinterested in your conversations, that’s a big warning sign. Some loud and clear red flags can be: anyone who doesn’t appreciate the iconic charm of “Tees Maar Khan” clearly lacks a sense of humour! Not to mention, if they don’t enjoy eating at Ajay’s, where the best cold coffee is served, you might want to reconsider.

2. Avoiding situationships like bad food

Getting into a relationship should feel as good as enjoying your favourite meal, but sometimes we end up making choices that leave us disappointed. It’s like paying full price for half a burger—you’re all in, enjoying every moment, but you only get a little bit of what you wanted. Just like choosing a bad dish, getting into a situationship can leave you feeling empty and frustrated. To avoid this, be clear about what you want and look for someone who is on the same page. Picking a good relationship is like choosing Ajay’s Café—where every meal is satisfying, making sure you get what you really want. Don’t settle for less; your heart deserves a full meal, not just a snack!

3. How to keep It casual (but not too casual)

Bethne ka tareeka casual hai meme on bassi's interview

Keeping things casual in dating can be tricky. You want to flirt but not cross the line into full-on relationship mode. Flirty texts can easily turn cringe-worthy—like when you send a “You must be a magician because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears” and get a “LOL, thanks?” in response. Yikes! Who wants that? It’s all about balance. Keeping it light and fun is key, but don’t let it get too friendly. After a failed date or awkward moment, treat yourself to a refreshing sip of the best cold coffee you’ve ever had and let the rich flavours lift your spirits.. That delicious experience can lift your spirits and help you forget any dating accidents, reminding you that the right vibe is just around the corner!

4. Flirt with the second prettiest person in the group

Three people enjoing Sitituation seep

When it comes to dating, trying something different can really help. Flirting with the second prettiest person in the group can take a lot of pressure off. You’re not competing for the top spot, so everything feels more relaxed. Plus, they might enjoy the attention even more than the main star! Imagine how nice it feels to be noticed: they might think, “Wow, someone actually sees me!” This can lead to more real connections and reduce the chances of being ghosted or facing those awkward moments. So next time you’re out, don’t just go for the best-looking—give the second prettiest a shot and see what happens!

5. Avoid being the Love Guru

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We all know that one friend who acts like a relationship expert but can’t get a single date for themselves. They’re always ready to give you advice on how to win hearts while their own love life is a mess. It’s like they’re running a masterclass on bike riding while still trying to figure out how to stay upright without supporting wheels! Instead of doing something about their own dating life, they’re busy giving others tips like they’re the Certified Love Guru. Newsflash: it’s way more productive to focus on your own love life than to play the “fixer” for everyone else. After all, who wants to be the person giving love advice while still waiting for their own romantic plot twist?

6. Don't act too desperate

It’s important to show interest without coming across as desperate. Constantly texting or trying too hard to impress can push people away. Instead, take it easy—let things flow naturally. Think of it like waiting for your order at Ajay’s Café: good things come to those who wait! Just as you wouldn’t rush the chef for the best pizza you’ve ever had, don’t rush your date either. Stay cool and let the connection build over time.

7. Avoid being controlling or possessive

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No one likes feeling controlled or restricted and being too possessive can quickly increase your chances of getting ghosted. Constantly checking in, trying to manage every small detail or not giving your date enough space can push them away for good. It’s important to let things flow naturally and trust the process. A relaxed and trusting vibe will keep things comfortable, reducing the risk of being ghosted forever.

8. The ultimate cure for ghosting - take them to Ajay’s

Taking someone to Ajay’s Café is like hitting the jackpot in the dating game! The cosy vibe and inviting atmosphere create the perfect setting for meaningful conversations, helping you connect on a deeper level. Plus, with the best cold coffee in town, you’re not just treating your date to a delicious drink but also setting the mood for fun and laughter. When you get both the tasty food and that Happy Wali Feeling, it’s hard for anyone to ghost you. After all, who would want to disappear after sharing great moments over such good food? Ajay’s Café makes sure your date feels special and engaged, leaving no room for awkward silences or disappearing acts!

9. Vibe Check: Getting that Happy Wali Feeling

Before diving into anything serious, it’s crucial to vibe-check the person you’re dating. If their energy doesn’t match yours, you could be setting yourself up for disappointment, like ordering your favourite dish only to find it’s missing all the good stuff! You want someone who gets your humour, shares similar values and makes you feel that “Happy Wali Feeling” with every conversation. When your vibes align, the chances of getting ghosted or trapped in a situationship drop. The right connection should feel natural and leave you feeling satisfied, not questioning where things are headed.

Conclusion

When it comes to dealing with ghosting, why waste your tears when you can binge on the best cold coffee and pizza? Seriously, nothing lifts your spirits like diving into a cheesy slice while laughing with friends. The joy of sharing delicious food beats any questionable romantic choices you might feel like making right now. So, ditch the heartache, grab a friend (or three) and take them to Ajay’s Café! Trust me, you’ll be way happier with a burger in hand than crying over a ghoster

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How do you convince your friend to give you a party?

A group of friends guys drinking cold coffee during a party at a fast food place

You might be served with the best burger in India, but do you know what makes it taste the best? When your friend is paying for it! 🤑

Whether you are 15 years old or 50 years old, we all get a kick from demanding a burger party or a pizza treat from our friends. But then our friends are none better than us. The more we demand a party from them, the more creative excuses they come up with to avoid taking out their wallets.

Lekin ab bahane nahi chalenge! Having overheard too much banter among friends at Ajay’s Cafe on who gives the treat, we have compiled some of the most compelling reasons for you to convince your friend to give you a party!

Table of Contents

  1. Place a bet they will never win
  2. Guilt trip always works
  3. Tarakki unki, toh treat bhi unki!
  4. Remind them how you know all their secrets
  5. Birthday pe toh banta hai yar!
  6. Chota disclaimer

Place a bet they will never win

This first one has actually been tried and tested on our dost-yaar. Give them a challenge which they will definitely lose. E.g. Challenge your friend to a truth and dare game. Next, give them the dare to go and ask their crush out for a cold coffee date. And if they lose, they have to give you a cold coffee treat.

Now, you are very well aware that the probability of your friend’s crush agreeing to go out on a coffee date is close to zero. This means you just earned yourself a treat! While your friend is recovering from the heartbreak, be a nice friend and do offer them a sip too. But make sure bill voh bhare!

Guilt trip always works

It is said that guilt can make people do unimaginable things. It also includes finally agreeing to the burger party the whole group has been demanding since the first year of college! Now, there are many ways to guilt trip your friend. Remind them how they were able to pass the semester because you let them copy from your answer sheet. Remind them how you picked up their crush’s birthday cake late at midnight so that they could pull off the midnight surprise. Guilt them into remembering all the instances when you got late to lectures and offices while picking them up because they were lazy and couldn’t wake up on time.

Wow, the list can just go on… One thing is for sure, the best pizza topping apart from cheese is GUILT. Acche accho ko line pe laa de!

Tarakki unki, toh treat bhi unki!

When your friend scores very good marks in the exams, when they get a raise or a promotion at their job or when their crush finally said YES to them – You are the happiest! Not because you want your friend to grow and prosper, but also because this calls for a PARTY!

Because when it’s such ‘khushi ka mauka’, you can’t help but say ‘jashn ki taiyyari karo’. Though it’s your friend who will end up paying for all the burgers, pizzas and fries you polish off, even from their tray!

Remind them how you know all their secrets

We don’t think anything could beat this one! From raja-maharajas to common people like us, everyone has used the legendary trick of Tera secret bata dunga haa to get something they want. To ensure you rarely have to pay for a burger, pizza or coffee till the time the friendship lasts, you must start keeping notes (if you haven’t already) of every scandalous thing that has happened with your friend.

And when the right opportunity comes or cravings strike, sneakily bring up the topic – The secret could be anything, from having multiple backs or ATKTs in their running semesters to catching them red-handed reading articles on how to get a girlfriend. And watch your friend make the offerings of your favourite burger and pizza treat.

Birthday pe toh banta hai yar!

It is your janma-siddh adhikaar to demand a big fat treat from your friend on his/her birthday. No laws or rules come into effect on this day. They must wholeheartedly fulfil your demands to give you a burger party or a pizza treat without asking any questions.

And if your friend tries to make ridiculous bahanas to avoid giving you a party, read point number 2 and 4 and use them on your friend. Fir dekho, how they agree to give you a treat!

But, but… here’s a chota disclaimer

All the above applies to your friend too… This means your friend can use all the above tricks and tips to get a burger party at Ajay’s from you too. And what is the point of calling yourself friends if you’re not always looking for reasons, no matter how silly they are, to demand a party from each other?

Now, just pray that your friend has not read this before you. Good luck!

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Red flags in friendship: The Ultimate Guide

two men standing next to each other, the second one reading his hand out on the shoulder

Alexa, please play dost dost na raha!

That’s our writer, he just had a friendship break up because he compiled a list of red flags to spot in friends. And guess what, out of the seven red flags on the list, his friend ticked 6!

While we comfort him with some cold coffee and a barbeque burger to cheer him up, why don’t you go through this list below and see if any of your so-called friends check this list?

Table of Contents

  1. Their first response is always a NO
  2. Never respond or react to your memes
  3. They think cold coffee is a childish drink
  4. They never pay their share after outings
  5. They keep saying “Bas 5 minutes mein pohoncha!”
  6. Can’t keep a secret
  7. Chooses other burgers over Ajay’s
  8. Some concluding thoughts

Their first response is always a NO

This is the easiest and one of the first red flags to identify in a friend. Inke NAA mein aur HAA mein, dono mein NAA hi hai. Whether it is to bunk classes to watch a movie, plan a midnight birthday surprise for someone or simply hang out at Ajay’s Cafe after college, their first answer is always a no. They agree only when a lot of people give them bhaav, try and convince them and make them feel they’re like some superstar. The only time their first response is a YES is when you offer them fries!

Never respond or react to your memes

It is an unsaid rule of friendship in the digital age, that one must at least use a crying-with-laughter emoji when a friend sends a reel or a meme on Instagram. Who are hese psychopaths jo seen pe chhod dete hai memes ko yar! Never trust people who claim to be your friends and do not respond or react to your memes. So what if they had seen the same meme just an hour ago on some meme page on Instagram?

They think cold coffee is a childish drink

If your friend says no to ordering cold coffee, it is fine. No kalesh, everyone has their choice. But if they then make you feel bad about it – then you must doubt if they’re actually your friend, yaa iske bheje mein koi chemical locha hai? There is nothing childish about cold coffee. Drag that friend to Ajay’s and make them try the Classic Cold Coffee. Deewana ho jayega! If they still think cold coffee is childish hai, we request you don’t go full Prajakta Koli from Mismatched from them. Bas apni thandi cold coffee se cool down your anger!

They never pay their share after outings

Nobody likes a mufti! And we have noticed from behind the counters of our Ajay’s Cafes, that there’s always that one fellow who will be the first one to order and the last one to pay their share of the total bill. Keep an eye out for such friends. They are probably hanging out with you because you always pay for their burgers, box cricket and even chai at the tapri below your office. We’re in the age of UPI, it hardly takes a few seconds to pay that ₹100 no!

They keep saying “Bas 5 minutes mein pohoncha!”

Have you ever wondered why ‘that one friend’ from the group is never on time? This person always arrives after the teams for the box cricket match are decided and always shows up after everyone has given their orders. And worse, he reaches the theatre much after the movie has started. And their bahanas? The cat fell sick, the neighbour’s house had no water, there was no fuel in the scooter and whatnot. Maybe, just maybe, the so-called friend never wanted to hang out with you all and was coming late on purpose. Spot this red flag and cut it off if you can.

Can't keep a secret

The most untrustworthy of them and one of the reddest flags in friendship is this. The foundation of any friendship is that you keep each other’s kaand and karam a top secret. If they go around telling your secrets to everyone, then you cannot be their friend. They’re the ones who will tell your mother that you were with your boyfriend/girlfriend instead of going to college.

Choose other burgers over Ajay's

This is the biggest red flag and the most non-negotiable red flag in any friendship. How can one choose a clown or a fake king’s place to hang out after work or class, when the best burgers can be found only at Ajay’s? In fact, we are pretty sure even the best pizza can be found at Ajay’s Cafe and not at the many American fast-food outlets that claim to make good pizza. Samajh lo, dost, vo saccha dost nahi jo Ajay’s Cafe ke burgers ko naa bole!

Some concluding thoughts

Phew! That was a lot of red flags, wasn’t it? Remember, friendships should be a source of joy, support and laughter. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries and walk away from friends who bring you down or say that cold coffee is a childish drink and they don’t believe that the best burgers are from Ajay’s Cafe. The world is full of amazing people waiting to be your true companions. Now go forth and find those friends! Just maybe grab a cold coffee (because seriously, who can resist?) and celebrate the fact that you’re now a certified pro at spotting red flags.

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Don’t Eat These Together – Foods You Must Never Combine

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Butter on Paranthas is a match made in heaven, kimchi adds a lot more flavour to your favourite ramen and when dahi (curd) is served with some piping hot Khichdi, it’s the ultimate soul food to many Indians. While these combinations score full marks from everyone, are there exactly polar opposite food combos that should never happen?

Let’s say the team here at Ajay’s Cafe is too curious when it comes to researching the best and worst things to have happened to food. They have come up with a list of foods that must never be combined, for the sake of humanity and one’s taste buds and tummy too. Let’s check them out!

Table of Contents

  1. Noodles and Curd/Yoghurt
  2. Burger with Hari (Green) Chutney
  3. Pav with Kadhi
  4. Cold Coffee and Any Citrus Fruits
  5. Dosa with Jams
  6. Pizza with Chai
  7. Some concluding thoughts

Noodles and Curd/Yoghurt

Can we start by acknowledging the dedication to scenes that Shah Rukh Khan has, when he actually ate a plate of noodles with curd in the movie Ra One, to poke fun at South Indians eating Curd Rice?

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But, that doesn’t mean anyone should consider this stunt without expert supervision or the doctor just a call away. Noodles are supposed to be spicy, tangy and in some cases, a bit sour too. When curd or yoghurt is mixed in the seasoning or had alongside noodles, it actually kills the kick of the varied flavours one might enjoy.

Burger with Hari (Green) Chutney

Alright, alright… Before the team starts getting DMs that this combo might actually taste good, trust us, it won’t. What makes any burger the best burger is the simple science of layering it right. There’s the soft buns, spread with mayonnaise of your favourite flavouring, then comes the perfectly cooked patty or tikki, with some cheese on top and maybe ketchup, if you’re up for it.

The hari chutney (made with green chillies, coriander and mint leaves) tastes best when combined with our desi foods like the OG Indian burger Vada Pav of Mumbai or maybe with the evergreen Theplas from Gujarat. Why ruin the classic flavours of burgers with a forced condiment, from a cuisine that is legendary in its own, right?

Pav with Kadhi

Dekho aisa hai, just because there’s leftover kadhi from the previous night’s Khichdi Kadhi dinner and you’re a bit lazy to steam some rice (PS: it is very easy) doesn’t mean it should be eaten with anything.

We are all for innovative combos, but some foods lose their originality and essence when paired with things that are not meant to be. Kadhi is such a delicious buttermilk-based gravy, that it deserves to be paired with something equally warm and soulful like steaming hot rice or any type of khichdi.

But Pav, which is made with wheat or maida, may not taste well with it. These breads taste great when served with vadas, tikkis, bhurjis, spreads, bhajis or some vegetable-based stews. Samjhe bandhu?

Cold Coffee and Any Citrus Fruits

Cold Coffee is a completely satisfying drink in itself. It has the caffeine kick, the perfect sweetness and a delicious creaminess to it. When something is so perfect, why ruin it by adding flavours that actually cut through the other instead of blending with it?

cold coffee bottles with oranges lying around on a table
We know it’s a good photo, but don’t try it!

This is why our chefs at Ajay’s Cafe HQ in Navsari just couldn’t agree upon adding flavours like lemon or orange in creating new variants of our cold coffees. Think about it, Orange in itself has a refreshing, citrusy punch to it. And coffee works as the perfect kicker on a day when the energy levels are low (thanks to all the late-night texting with your potential girlfriend/boyfriend). When you mix the flavours of milk, caffeine and citrus together, they cancel out each other and will leave a weird after-taste on your tastebuds.

Dosa with Jams

When we Gujjus think of doing something daring with a chance of a blowback, we call it akhatro. That is exactly what this combo is. Dosas are a gift from our South Indian brothers and sisters. They’ve also taught us how to pair it with perfect condiments like coconut and tomato chutneys, sambar, Milagai Podi (gun powder) and even ghee (remember the Davangiri Dosa at Ajay’s Food Court?). Why cause controversy by mixing it with Jams or worse, jelly spreads? And if you’re thinking of chocolate or Nutella, we want you to stop right there and think of something else.

Dosas are great Indian pancakes or crepes that, unlike their European counterparts, need any form of sweet, syrupy pairing. DOSAS ARE SAVOURY! There, we couldn’t have made it more clear.

Pizza with Chai

Agreed, that we Gujaratis are very daring with our food choices and we’re the inventors of the legendary Pineapple Sandwich and Maggi Bhajiya. But even we won’t go to the extremes of ordering a Pizza and a garma garam chai along with it.

The best pizza and drink pairing would be a cold coffee or a tall glass of Coke – it goes without saying. Hot beverages are not the best drink of choice to go with pizzas. And since we’re talking about chai, maybe have a Vada Pav or a Bombay Masala Toast with it. When you’re thinking of pizza in Ahmedabad, don’t go to the nearest galla to pick up a cutting chaa, but head to the nearest Ajay’s Cafe and go for Cold Coffee and a Margherita Pizza.

Some concluding thoughts

Kya bolti public? It’s good to be innovative with your food pairings, and never stop experimenting. If you have friends who may or may not be very experimentative or have no clue what should or not be paired while eating, send them this blog. Punya ka kaam hai dosto.

And if you have more suggestions for us and our readers, DM us on Instagram on @ajayscafeofficial.

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How to get a girlfriend in India: The Ultimate Guide

An Indian couple enjoying burgers together at home

It is said that all you need is love, but nobody told us how difficult, wait, almost impossible it is to find this “love”. We are a country that grew up on a steady diet of cheesy Bollywood romances. Everyone believes that they too will find the Simran to their Raj. And even though girls have shown absolutely no interest in you, your already single sidekick keeps your hope up by telling you that uski naa mein bhi haa hai (there’s a hidden YES in her NO). Don’t fall for all this. Our team of researchers (who might be single too… but that’s beside the point) have come up with this foolproof checklist of how to get a girlfriend in India and take her out on a cold coffee date. Why a cold coffee date, you ask? Now, you can’t take a girl out to a tapri to impress her, would you?

Table of contents

  1. Identify places to meet your potential match
  2. Dress for the date you want
  3. Find common ground or people
  4. Do your homework – Research well
  5. Ditch those cheesy lines
  6. Remember, love is a journey
  7. Date Time – Aajao Ajay’s Cafe Pe!

Identify places to meet your potential match

Now that you have decided that you’re no longer going to be single or the topic of many “single hi marega tu” jokes by your committed friends, the first step to getting a girlfriend is to identify where you can meet the girl of your dreams (or anyone who’d remotely show interest in you).

Now, these places could either be your office, your classroom, the gym, a friend or a family member’s wedding. And if none of these places helps, there’s always the good ol’ dating apps like Tinder and Bumble.

An Indian guy and an Indian girl look at each other lovingly
Some of the initial love stories start in classrooms

Get active at these places and showcase your personality, because that is one of the most attractive qualities a guy could have. Your clothes, the vehicle you drive and everything else comes secondary. But, make sure you don’t cross the line of being creepy. Itna aasaan thodi hai, dost?

Dress for the date you want

Once you have identified the spots where you could meet your potential girlfriend, you must look the part as well. Well, learn from the OG Chocolate Boy of Bollywood, Shahid Kapoor, you have to stand out from the crowd to get her to notice you.

Dress well, dress for the occasion and dress with the trends. Basically, don’t step out wearing an un-ironed shirt. Do not wear a hoodie to an engagement party and definitely ditch wearing those acid-wash jeans with anything, they’re so last decade. Remember, you want to be charming like Bunny from Yeh Jawani Hai Deewani and not Suri from Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi.

Find common ground or people

While we are all for confidence and going out and speaking to the girl you like to make an impression, we don’t want your sorry single self to crash and burn if she says no to your face. Hence here’s some advice, find common points of interest to initiate a soft conversation and then maybe turn up the game. Another easy and safe way to form a connection is to find common people between you. Remember, if there was no Anjali, then Rahul wouldn’t have made an impression on Tina in Kuch Kuch Hota Hai.

Scene from Kal Ho Na Ho with Delnaz Paul and Preity Zinta
Keep your enemies close, but friends who can help you meet girls? CLOSER

Common friends help make an introduction, maybe put in a good word about you to the girl you like and even help break the ice by creating situations to meet and interact. Basically, we’re telling you to find the cheese that brings the bun and patty together to form the best burger.

Do your homework - Research well

Once you have made contact, there’s no backing down. You have to up your game and be on your feet all the time, to ensure that the spark doesn’t die down after the initial conversation.

And this is possible when you have enough knowledge about what she likes, what she doesn’t, what are the things that excite her, what kind of music she listens to, which movies she watches and which foods get her drooling. For example, if she loves to watch Brooklyn 99, listens to Rahat Fateh Ali Khan and never says no to pizza, you know your next conversation can revolve around which Haloween Heist was the best, if Rahat Fateh Ali Khan should feature again on Coke Studio and which places in your city serves the best pizza.

Ditch those cheesy lines

Okay, let’s get this straight. Cheese is the best thing when it is melted and on pizza and in burgers or inside wraps. Definitely NOT ON PICK UP LINES.

So, instead of trying to impress the girl by telling her if she were a fruit she’d be a fine apple, make conversations with her and exchange ideas, thoughts and opinions because that’s what showcases your real personality. (Remember the previous point and the first point? If not, go back and read them again!)

Remember, love is a journey

Finding love in India is a wild ride, full of unexpected turns and maybe a few bumps along the way. But hey, that’s what makes it interesting, right? So read this checklist every time you plan on meeting someone interesting and eventually dating her. This will be your ultimate guide, your best wingman. But yes, make sure you keep this a secret initially. Because we all know, Indian families are not very chill about dating and all, right?

Date Time - Aajao Ajay’s Cafe Pe!

Now that you have impressed the girl you like, she has given hints that you two must go out on a date, yahan galti mat karna! Don’t go for the usual, ghisa-pita options of watching a movie. Because inside a theatre, you’d be busy watching the film rather than talking.

Bring her to Ajay’s Cafe. Order the Peri-Peri Cheesy Delight to spice up the conversation, some Salted Fries with a dip to share between the both of you and a Classic Cold Coffee each. And to make it more fun, you can actually choose to sit at one of the board game tables and play a fun game of Ludo or Snakes and Ladders.

Hai na ekdam mast, cute first date?

Disclaimer: This guide is intended for entertainment purposes only. Actual results may vary. Because all these stunts were tried and tested by experts. The best case scenario of all these working out well will occur only if you eventually take her out to Ajay’s Cafe for a fun date. And do not blame us if your family ki Seema aunty eventually sets you up with a dentist (they earn good money even though they may not be actual doctors, you know).

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Top 20 Famous Foods in Gujarat You Must Try in 2024

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When you think about Gujarati food, the usual names come to our minds – Dhokla, Thepla, Fafda and Jalebi (thanks to Jethalal and TMKOC). Agreed, they are delicious. But food in Gujarat has grown much beyond these usual Farsan items or the infamous meethi daal. This blog will take you through a mouthwatering list of the top 20 famous foods in Gujarat that you must try in 2024.

Table of Contents

  1. 20 Famous Foods of Gujarat
  2. Kaik Meethu Pan
  3. Non-traditional, but unmissable

20 Famous Foods of Gujarat

Ganthiya

Ganthiya

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Ganthiya is an extremely popular Gujarati snack that might surprise you! Let’s just say it’s the soft and savoury twin brother of Fafda, Gujarat’s favourite Sunday naasto (snack). Unlike other deep-fried snacks, it’s not crunchy but rather soft and puffy. Made from besan (chickpea flour), it’s basically thick strings of hand-rolled dough kneaded with spices like turmeric powder and carom seeds add flavour deep-fried in groundnut oil. It is often enjoyed with a semi-spicy hari (green) chutney and masala chai. Bhavnagar in Gujarat is famous for its Ganthiya variety, so be sure to try some if you’re in the city!

Khaman

Khaman served with fried green chilli

Okay. We know, you must be thinking “Arey, but this is toh dhokla no?” No, it is not. Khaman is made entirely from fermented besan batter, unlike its more famous cousin Dhokla, where rice is coarsely grounded into its batter. Khaman has a light, fluffy texture and comes in two variants – Vati Dal Khaman, the savoury one and Nylon Khaman, the sweeter and softer one. Khaman is usually served with mint chutney, fried chillies or some sweet and thick Gujarati kadhi. The Khaman in Surat is considered to be the top tier, followed by the ones from other cities like Ahmedabad and Vadodara.

Patra

Patra

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Patra is an innovative and delicious snack from Gujarat. It’s a leafy roll made from layering Alnu Paan (અળુના પાન) with a semi-thick besan batter, spread all over the surface, rolled tightly and steamed until it’s cooked through. Once these rolls are taken out of the cooker, they’re cut into circular discs and then tossed into a pan with some groundnut oil, mustard seeds and chillies. Bardoli in Gujarat is known to serve some of the best Patra. But it is widely available at almost every Farsan mart in almost every city of Gujarat.

Khandvi

Another beloved snack of the Gujaratis, the Khandvi are tiny bite-sized rolls made with, yes you guessed it right, besan and the usual spices. What adds a creamy and smooth texture to it is the blending of curd in the batter. Khandvi has a fan following across all ages. Some may even compare it with its North Eastern counterpart La Phing, but they’re two very different items and that’s a topic we might discuss some time later. One can find Khandvi everywhere across Gujarat in farsan shops of all sizes. In fact, Khandvi has regularly featured in the menus for visiting world leaders in India for their dinner and lunch with Prime Minister Narendra Modi.

Methi na Gota

Methi na Gota

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This is not just any ordinary pakora or bhajiya. Methi na Gota are deep-fried fritters made of besan, methi (fenugreek) leaves and spices. The methi leaves are coarsely chopped and mixed into the besan batter that already has the spices and some baking soda in it. Once deep fried until golden brown, they have a light crunch on the outside but a surprisingly spongy and soft inside unlike the Kanda Bhajiya (which has a more crispy texture overall). While it is said that Dakor has the best Gota in Gujarat, we’d suggest going to any of the farsan outlets near your house and enjoying it with some ketchup.

Locho

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Locho is a steamed Gujarati farsan originating in Surat. Made from gram flour, the dish gets its name from its loose consistency and irregular, dumpling-like shape. It’s somewhat related to Khaman, but unlike its cousin, Locho isn’t served in pre-cut pieces. It’s typically seasoned with oil, butter, sev, spices, coriander and onions. Widely enjoyed in Surat, this snack is particularly popular as Surti Locho. Its popularity extends to Navsari and other regions of South Gujarat as well.

Cholafari

Cholafari

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This flaky Gujarati snack, traditionally enjoyed during Diwali, offers a delightful textural contrast similar to papad or chips. Its irresistible flavour comes from a simple yet zesty seasoning of chilli powder and dry mango powder, creating a perfect balance of sour and spicy. While mastering the art of fluffy cholafari at home can be tricky, this recipe unlocks the secret to achieving perfect texture every single time.

Ghughra

Ghughra

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Tikha Ghughra is a beloved street food hailing from the Gujarati city of Jamnagar. These deep-fried dumplings, packed with a fiery potato filling, are a true explosion of flavour. The star of the show is the crispy exterior, giving way to a burst of spiced potato goodness. To complete the experience, a symphony of toppings is added – tangy and sweet chaat chutneys, crunchy masala sing (peanuts) and a sprinkle of nylon sev for textural contrast. This delightful mix of sweet, sour and spicy flavours makes Tikha Ghughra a favourite among all ages in Jamnagar.

Undhiyu

Undhiyu

Undhiyu is a must-have dish for Gujarat’s beloved kite-flying festival, Uttarayan. No Uttarayan is complete without the delicious trio of Undhiyu, Puri and Jalebi. This mixed vegetable dish is a regional speciality of Surat, Gujarat. Its name comes from the Gujarati word “undhu,” meaning “upside down,” reflecting the traditional cooking method in a matlu (earthen pot) buried underground and fired from above. Undhiyu is a seasonal delight, featuring winter vegetables like green beans, raw bananas, small eggplants, potatoes and purple yam available along the South Gujarat coastline, including Surat, Navsari and Valsad regions. These vegetables are simmered in a dry paste made with coriander leaves, ginger, garlic, green chillies, sugar and some freshly grated coconut and slow-cooked with oil and a minimal amount of water, just enough to steam the root vegetables.

Sev-Tameta nu Shaak

This Gujarati comfort food literally translates to “tomato and sev curry” and is a delightful explosion of textures and flavours. Originally from the Kathiyawad region of Gujarat, this dish has a base that is a simple yet flavourful tomato gravy simmered with spices. Then comes the magic touch – a generous helping of sev. The sev adds a delightful crunch that contrasts perfectly with the smooth tomato base. The sweetness from a touch of sugar balances the tangy tomatoes, making Sev Tameta nu Shaak a crowd-pleasing favourite. This is served with Bajra No Rotlo or Bhakhri.

Tuver na Totha

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Tuver na Totha is a comforting and flavourful Gujarati dish perfect for a warming lunch or dinner. The star of the show is tuver dal, a type of pigeon pea, simmered in a rich and slightly spicy tomato gravy. Fresh ingredients like ginger, garlic and green chillies add depth of flavour, while warming spices like turmeric and cumin bring a touch of heat. The dish is typically cooked until the lentils are tender and the gravy has thickened nicely.

Traditionally, Tuver na Totha is served with pan-seared flatbreads like roti or paratha. These crispy breads are perfect for scooping up the delicious stew and soaking up all the flavourful gravy. It’s a simple yet satisfying meal that’s sure to leave you feeling happy and content.

Ringa No Olo

Ringa No Olo

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Ringna No Olo is a delicious Gujarati sabzi made with roasted eggplant (also called brinjal or baingan) and a blend of spices. The roasting brings out the delicious flavour of the eggplant, which is then mashed and cooked slightly with green chillies, ginger and other spices. This dish is very similar to Baingan Ka Bharta, a popular dish from other parts of India. They’re made similarly, with just a few small differences. Ringna No Olo is a great choice for lunch or dinner during winter in Gujarat and it goes perfectly with Bajra No Rotlo (flatbread made with millet flour) or Bhakhri (another type of flatbread).

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Matho

Matho

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Matho is a delightful Gujarati dessert that shares similarities with Shrikhand but offers a lighter experience. Made with hung curd and cut fruits, Matho boasts a refreshing taste with a touch of probiotic goodness. Unlike the thicker and creamier Shrikhand, Matho has a thinner consistency, perfect for warmer months. This allows for a delightful addition – fruits! Mixed fruit Matho is a popular summer treat, featuring a vibrant mix of chopped seasonal fruits like mango, pomegranate and grapes. Served chilled, Matho is a burst of flavour and a perfect way to cool down on a hot day.

Basundi

Basundi is a decadent Indian dessert that will tantalise your taste buds with its richness and creaminess. Unlike its North Indian cousin Rabri, which often incorporates thickened milk solids, Basundi takes a simpler approach. Whole milk is simmered patiently over low heat, slowly reducing it to about half its original volume. As the milk cooks, it caramelises, developing a deep, nutty flavour and a thick, pudding-like consistency. This creamy base is then often enriched with nuts like almonds and pistachios, along with the aromatic touch of cardamom and saffron. Served chilled or at room temperature, Basundi can be enjoyed as is or dressed up with a drizzle of honey and chopped nuts.

Keri no Ras

Keri no Ras, also known as Aamras, is a simple yet delightful Gujarati dish that celebrates the king of fruits – the mango. Freshly hand-peeled Alphonso mangoes, known for their sweetness and flavour, form the base of this dish. The juicy pulp is then blended with a touch of water or milk to create a smooth and refreshing drink. A sprinkle of saffron adds a touch of luxury, while cardamom and nutmeg provide an aromatic touch.

Non-traditional, but unmissable

Kutchi Dabeli

A well-known snack from Kutch and Saurashtra, but this street food variation offers a whole different experience. Imagine a perfectly seasoned, tender potato patty wrapped inside a bun. Then, a colourful variety of chutneys—sweet and spicy—along with a sprinkling of chopped onions and coriander. A last burst of pomegranate seeds gives a sweet crunch that enhances the flavour of every bite of Dabeli. This dish is an excellent grab-and-go option for satisfying your hunger while visiting Gujarat’s crowded streets.

Amdavadi Vadapav

Amdavadi Vadapav

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The Amdavadi Vadapav takes the classic Bombay street food, Vada Pav and adds a unique Gujarati touch. The star of the show remains the same – a deep-fried potato patty, spiced with turmeric, cumin and coriander, known as a vada. However, instead of a simple bun, Amdavadi Vadapav uses a soft and pillowy ladi pav. The magic happens when the vada is generously pan-seared in butter, giving it a crispy golden exterior and a rich buttery flavour. This delightful creation is then tucked into the soft ladi pav and finished with a combination of sweet and tangy chutneys, typically ketchup and green chutney. The Amdavadi Vadapav is a must-try for any vada pav enthusiast, offering a unique and flavourful twist on a beloved street food.

Sandwich Dhokla

Sandwich Dhokla is a creative twist on the classic Gujarati savoury snack, Dhokla. Made from a fermented batter of rice and chickpea flour, Dhokla is usually steamed into soft and fluffy squares. Sandwich Dhokla takes this base and elevates it to a whole new level. Here, the steamed Dhokla squares are generously spread with a layer of flavourful green chutney. This chutney layer is then covered by another layer of steamed Dhokla, creating a delicious sandwich. Sometimes, a dollop of tangy yoghurt is added between the layers for extra flavour and moisture. Cut into bite-sized pieces, Sandwich Dhokla is a visually appealing and delightful snack, perfect for parties.

Nadiad nu Puff

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Anyone and everyone who’s lived in Gujarat for over 3 years has surely heard about Nadiad Nu Puff and most probably got to eat it too if they’ve visited the city. Yes, while puff is a European baked snack, but us Indians surprisingly the Gujaratis have made it our own with vegetable and paneer-based stuffings. These puffs are prepared early in the morning and heaved in ovens right in front of the customers, so they know they’re getting the freshest snack possible. The bakeries like Punjab Bakery, a favourite among the locals, have perfected this flaky snack over time and made it a big part of the city’s food scene. They’re a must-try for anyone visiting Nadiad and a staple for those who live there.

Ajay’s Cafe Pizza and Burger

Just like the Puffs, Gujjus have also made America’s favourite fast food meal, consisting of burgers, pizzas and a drink, their own. All this with Ajay’s introducing their own desi and classic pizza and burgers in Ahmedabad and other cities of Gujarat. Everything you want for a delicious meal that makes you happy – tasty burgers in different flavours, cheesy pizzas with a variety of toppings, refreshing cold coffee and Mango shakes along with crispy fries served with Peri Peri seasoning and a variety of dips – You will find it at an Ajay’s in a city.

Save this list and share it with friends and families who are travelling to Gujarat. Don’t miss trying all the dishes and definitely finish it off with a tall glass of cold coffee from Ajay’s Cafe in Gujarat for a #HappyWaliFeeling.

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Top 10 Gujarati Singers

A collage image of Top Gujarati singers

Let’s be honest. Life can be repetitive sometimes. You scroll through the same old music, order the same sandwich or Maggie. Need a refresh? How about a musical adventure that will get you grooving and maybe teach you some new Gujarati phrases?

Gujarati music is a blend of different sounds, weaving together soulful folk melodies with modern beats. It’s a genre that can make you want to get up and dance or simply appreciate the beauty of the Gujarati language.

So, get ready to experience the magic of Gujarati music. Here are the top 10 Gujarati singers who are guaranteed to add some spice to your playlist:

Table of Contents

  1. Aishwarya Majmudar
  2. Aditya Gadhvi
  3. Aishwarya Joshi
  4. Bhoomi Trivedi
  5. Falguni Pathak
  6. Kirtidan Gadhvi
  7. Kinjal Dave
  8. Osman Mir
  9. Sachin-Jigar
  10. Umesh Barot

Aishwarya Majmudar

This powerhouse vocalist has a voice like silk. Her soulful renditions of both traditional and contemporary Gujarati songs have earned her a loyal fan following. Her versatility shines through as she effortlessly transitions between traditional bhajans and modern hits, captivating audiences with each performance. She is someone whose voice can make you melt.

Aditya Gadhvi

Aditya Gadhvi

This singer-songwriter is a rising star with a knack for crafting catchy tunes and relatable lyrics. He gained popularity with the song Gotilo. His music often blends traditional Gujarati elements with modern music, creating a sound that’s both familiar and fresh. He continues to elevate Gujarati music to new heights, leaving a lasting impact on listeners everywhere.

Aishwarya Joshi

She is the energetic voice behind Dakla. Dakla, an ancient folk music genre, has come to be associated with Aishwarya. She has brought this ancient art form to global prominence with her unmatched talent and commitment.

Bhoomi Trivedi

Aishwarya Joshi

She is known for her powerful vocals and captivating stage presence. Whether she is singing a soulful song or grooving to a peppy dance track, Bhoomi brings her A-game every time.

Falguni Pathak

Bhoomi Trivedi

If you have ever been to a garba night, you have definitely heard Falguni Pathak’s music. This energetic singer is known for her high-octane dance tracks that are guaranteed to get you moving. She is known as the Garba Queen.

Kirtidan Gadhvi

With his mesmerising tunes and captivating performances, Kirtidan takes listeners to a world of tradition and nostalgia. His deep connection to his roots is evident in every song. Through his music, Kirtidan Gadhvi continues to leave a legacy for generations to come.

Kinjal Dave

Kinjal Dave

With her powerful voice and charismatic stage presence, Kinjal captivates audiences with her performances. With a focus on creativity and innovation, Kinjal Dave continues to push the boundaries of Gujarati music, inspiring listeners with her talent and passion.

Osman Mir

Osman Mir

His soulful voice and heartfelt renditions have earned him the title as a master of Sufi and Ghazal music. His melodies evoke a sense of spirituality transporting listeners to a realm of divine beauty. Through his devotion and dedication, Osman Mir continues to uphold the rich tradition of Sufi music, his talent touching the hearts of listeners worldwide.

Sachin-Jigar

Sachin-Jigar

This dynamic duo has made a significant impact on the Gujarati music industry with their innovative compositions and heartfelt lyrics. Their music blends elements of folk, pop and Bollywood to create a sound that is uniquely their own. Through their passion and dedication, Sachin-Jigar has become an icon of the industry, their music resonating with audiences around the world.

Umesh Barot

Umesh Barot is a versatile singer and composer in the Gujarati music scene. He can sing everything from heartfelt songs to upbeat dance tracks. He’s also famous for working with other artists, mixing different types of music to make something special.

Concluding thoughts…

Looks like this is the perfect list for anyone to create a melodic Gujarati music playlist on Spotify. Enjoy the soulful renditions by Osman Mir while sipping on some delicious cold coffee on a hot summery afternoon at home or have a listening party of sorts at Ajay’s Cafe with friends after college, shared over burgers and pizzas. The possibilities to have a good time with Gujarati music are endless.

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Top 10 Gujarati Movies

Call up your friends for a fun movie night at your home this summer! Our list of top 10 Gujarati movies is the perfect selection of laughter, drama and horror genres. And don’t forget to order some burgers and pizza from Ajay’s Cafe, because well, long movie nights will make you hungrier, right? Let’s go!

Table of Contents

  1. Naadi Dosh
  2. Vash
  3. Chello Divas
  4. Love ni Bhavai
  5. Chal Man Jeetva Jaiye
  6. Maunam
  7. Gujju Bhai The Great
  8. Shu Thayu
  9. Hellaro
  10. Wrong Side Raju

Naadi Dosh (2022)

After a few lifts and coffee dates, the flings quickly develop into a marriage proposal. Even more, the portrayal of Kevin’s father Kamlesh (played by Ashish Kakkad) reveals that Riddhi works for him. When the families first meet, everything seems to be going well until Prashant, the father of Riddhi (played by Prashant Barot), contacts an astrologer to match the bride and groom’s birth charts and they do not match. They are under tremendous pressure to follow tradition from both their families and society. Nadi Dosh doesn’t shy away from portraying the heartbreaking consequences of such pressure, leaving you thinking about the complexities of love and societal expectations. Grab a tissue (and maybe a comforting slice of our pizza) as you witness the struggle of these star-crossed lovers.

Vash (2023)

This psychological thriller will not let you get up from your seat. Aarya (played by Janki Bodiwala) gets under the influence of black magic by a stranger Pratap (Hiten Kumar). Under his influence, Aarya tries to harm her family. It quickly turns into a nightmare for her father, mother and brother. The film nicely shows the negative effects of black magic and how it destroys a happy family. A powerful performance by Janki Bodiwala, Hiten Kumar and Hitu Kanodia. It keeps you glued to the screen, but Vash is not for the faint-hearted. Pair this intense watch with a soothing cup of cold coffee to calm your nerves after the film ends. The caffeine kick might even inspire you to discuss the movie’s important message with your friends.

Chello Divas (2015)

Calling all comedy fans! The story of this movie is guaranteed to make you laugh and take you back to your old college days. The film follows a group of college friends and their adventures in college and their personal lives. As they think about their past and look at the complexities of their present lives, hilarious situations and laugh-out-loud moments arise. Chello Divas is a feel-good film that celebrates friendship, nostalgia and the power of reconnecting with your childhood crew. Laughter guaranteed – just like the satisfaction you get from our perfectly seasoned fries! Sometimes, a good laugh and some crispy, golden fries are the perfect mood boosters after a long day.

Love ni Bhavai (2017

Aa to prem ni vaat chhe. This delightful film explores the complexities of love and relationships through the story of Aaditya (played by Pratik Gandhi – he has become the rom-com king of Gujarati cinema?), RJ Antara Suman (played by Aarohi Patel) and her boyfriend Sagar (played by Malhar Thakar). However, Antara and Sagar’s love story faces new challenges. Will their love survive this test? Love ni Bhavai is a fun, light-hearted film that will have you rooting for the love birds and cheering for them happily ever after. Enjoy the movie with a gossip session over some of our delicious burgers!

Chal Man Jeetva Jaiye (2017)

The entire film takes place in one room and includes roughly ten to twelve family members who have just experienced significant financial losses as a result of poor business decisions made by the family’s male members. Therefore, they have two options for handling the situation: file for bankruptcy or give the investors their money back. Each has benefits and drawbacks. In the film, a father and his two kids argue over how to handle the problem from different points of view. The two boys fight each other to create an empire in their unique ways as the film comes to a close, which may encourage viewers to return for the sequel.

Maunam (2024)

Supermarket worker Raghav (Bhavik Bhojak) and writer Meera (Aanchal Shah) fall in love, get married and look forward to having their first kid together. After being engaged in an accident that leaves Raghav in intensive care, their lives take an unexpected turn. The film portrays their struggles with raw honesty and relatable situations, making it a must-watch for anyone who’s ever felt lost or unsure of their path.

Gujju Bhai The Great (2015)

The Gandhi residence is shown in the first scene of the movie and then the camera goes back to reveal the actors. A cheerful man, Hasmukh Gandhi’s (played by Siddharth Randeria) carefree existence falls apart when his daughter Tanisha (played by Dipna Patel) returns home with her boyfriend, Montu. Tanisha was a passionate fan of Superstar Sonia Kapoor and Montu (Alekh Sangal) promised her that he knew her well and would take her to see Sonia at some point. In an attempt to prove he could attract any girl, Montu travelled to Ahmedabad. Along with a coworker, Hasmukh decides to help her daughter break up with her boyfriend. The film is a laugh riot, packed with slapstick humour, witty dialogues and quirky characters. Light-hearted and fun, this film is perfect for a casual watch with friends. And what better way to unwind after the movie than with our signature burgers?

Shu Thayu (2018)

Manan (played by Malhar Thakar) was fully prepared to tie the knot with his beloved, Dipali (played by Kinjal Rajpriya). However, a mishap just before the wedding left him with amnesia, causing him to forget every detail about the wedding. Laughter breaks out when Manan’s friends attempt various funny techniques to force him to recall things he has forgotten and is trying to hide from his fiancée.

Hellaro (2019)

A little girl named Manjhri is married off in 1975 to a little community in the remote Rann of Kutch. The village has not seen rain in a long time. Because of a widow rup who was an embroiderer and attempted to get money by running away with another villager. According to people, it was the goddess’ curse. The ladies are not permitted to perform garba; instead, the men apologise to the goddess by performing a garba. The women of the village are only free in the mornings when they walk to a far-off lake to get water. Relatable characters and a powerful message make this a must-watch.

Wrong Side Raju (2016)

Following an ugly hit-and-run incident that permanently changes the lives of three people, a driver by the name of Raju sets out on a mission of forgiveness. A young man named Raju Bhambhani (played by Pratik Gandhi) is from Ahmedabad. His boss Tanmay (played by Kavi Shastri), the son of a well-known manufacturer, accuses him of being involved in a hit-and-run case, which drastically changes his life. Police attempt to distinguish between reality and fantasy as Raju sets out to prove his innocence.

As the credits roll on our top 10 Gujarati movies, this is an opportunity to plan movie nights with friends this summer. Drop a text in the friends WhatsApp group right away, to plan to watch one movie each from the list every other night. And to ensure that these movie nights are special, order in the best burger and pizza in Ahmedabad, from Ajay’s Cafe to munch on while laughing out loud, weeping at heartbreaks and celebrating the hero and heroine’s wins in the movies.